How Do I Know If I’m Settling?
Compromise and settling can feel the same from the inside. The real difference, and the quiet test that tells you which one you are in.
The Weekly Column is Match Me Canada’s premium editorial publication on modern relationships, dating psychology, and the inner work of meeting someone real. Written by Rebecca Cooper-Traynor.
How Do I Know If Someone Is Serious About Me?
Interest is a feeling. Intention is a pattern. How to tell whether someone is serious about you, without waiting months to find out.
Am I Asking for Too Much?
How to tell a healthy standard from an unrealistic expectation, and why the people who ask this are usually asking for too little.
Why Do I Get Attached So Quickly?
Getting attached fast is rarely about love. It is often emotional projection. Toronto matchmaker Rebecca Cooper-Traynor on the difference, and how to slow down.
Rebecca’s Observations: Why Some People Stay Emotionally Attached to Almost-Relationships Longer Than Real Relationships
A quiet look at why eight weeks of ambiguity can outlast five years of partnership, and what that says about how the mind holds onto unfinished stories.
Are You Dating the Person, or the Idea of Them?
The Relationship Column Are You Dating the Person, or the Idea of Them? There is a quiet, almost invisible mistake that shapes more relationships than infidelity, mismatched values, or bad timing ever will. It is the slow drift between the person in front of you and the version of them you keep in your mind.…