Look at you, showing up and putting yourself out there even when it’s complicated. That’s powerful. I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor, founder of Match Me Canada. For over 16 years, I’ve been coaching people through dating, love, and heartbreak. When people come to me about their relationships, the questions are usually more emotional than logical. They’re…
Look at you, showing up and putting yourself out there. Love that for you. I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor, matchmaker, dating coach, and real-talk advocate behind Match Me Canada. I’ve spent the past 16 years helping singles find healthy love. And part of that means facing the stuff that keeps us stuck. Like why you keep…
By Rebecca Cooper Traynor | Match Me Canada Let’s be real: the idea of being naked—physically and emotionally—with someone new after a breakup can be terrifying. • “Will they compare me to their ex?” • “What if they see my scars—literal or emotional?” • “Can I trust someone new with my body and heart?” These thoughts…
Hi there, I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor! Founder of Match Me Canada, your modern matchmaker and dating coach. Over the years, I’ve helped countless singles navigate the wild world of modern dating, and one thing that comes up time and time again? Obsession. You meet someone, and suddenly, they’re all you think about. Why do we do…
Hey there! I’m Rebecca from Match Me Canada. Let’s talk about one of the most underrated parts of dating: the second date. First dates are filled with nerves, awkward silences, and sometimes, a total lack of connection. But here’s the thing: first impressions can be deceiving. That’s why second dates matter—and they could be the key…
In today’s world, online dating is a major way people find love. But here’s the thing: dating profiles aren’t always 100% truthful. Hi, I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor from Match Me Canada, and for almost 16 years, I’ve been helping singles in Toronto and the GTA find meaningful connections. Recently, I’ve focused on helping clients navigate the…
Love isn’t just about grand gestures and shared playlists—it’s about trust, connection, and, most importantly, feeling safe. I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor from Match Me Canada, and for 15 years, I’ve been helping singles in Toronto and the GTA find meaningful relationships. One thing I’ve learned along the way? Without emotional safety, even the most passionate love…
Hey loves! It’s Rebecca Cooper Traynor from Match Me Canada, here to chat about one of the biggest questions in modern dating: When should you sleep with someone? Let’s be real—this decision can feel HUGE. And no wonder! Whether you’re in your 20s, 40s, or beyond, deciding when to get intimate isn’t just about attraction. It’s about…
Hi loves! It’s Rebecca Cooper Traynor from Match Me Canada—your matchmaker, dating coach, and advocate for healthy, empowering love. Today, I want to talk about something that gets in the way of real connection: abandoning yourself in relationships. Here’s the thing: love should never come at the cost of your own identity. But for so many of…
Hey beautiful souls! It’s Rebecca Cooper Traynor here from Match Me Canada, and today we’re going deep. Let’s talk about something that affects so many of us but is rarely openly discussed in dating—abandonment issues. Whether we know it or not, experiences of feeling abandoned, unseen, or left out as kids often show up in our…