The Art of Letting Go: Why Changing Your Partner is a Lost Cause |
Hi, Singles of the dating world.Let’s be honest; we’ve all been there. You’ve met someone who has everything you’re looking for except for that one thing that just irks you. They’re not quite the perfect fit, but you have faith in them and believe that they’ll change with a little nudge in the right direction. Well, let me be the bearer of bad news, folks. You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. The same goes for people and their behaviour. People will only change if they want to and when they’re ready. Trying to change someone is a recipe for disaster and can lead to resentment and disappointment. So, why do some people stay in relationships with people who “have potential”? The answer is simple: we’re human and tend to see the best in people. We believe that with a little bit of effort, we can help shape them into the person we want them to be. But, let’s be honest, if someone is not satisfied with themselves, they’re not going to be happy with their relationship either. So, what can you do if you’re in a relationship with someone you’re not fully happy with but holding onto hope for the future? The answer is to take a step back and evaluate what’s truly important to you. Ask yourself if the person you’re with is worth the effort and if you’re truly happy. If the answer is no, it might be time to move on. But what if you’re single and you’re having trouble finding someone who fits the bill? Don’t worry; that’s where Match Me Canada comes in. Our team of date coaches and online dating support specialists can help you find someone who not only has potential but who also ticks all the boxes. With our help, you’ll be on your way to finding a lasting relationship. Need some date coaching and support right now? Book a personalized date coaching call with me today! fees apply |
