Breaking the Cycle: How to Recognize and Overcome Sabotage in Your Dating Life
Are you tired of swiping left on dating apps and ending up alone on Friday nights?
Well, don’t blame the dating pool – it might just be you sabotaging your own chances of finding love.
As the great Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the city once said, “I can’t help but wonder… are we afraid to go after what we really want?” It’s true – many singles unknowingly sabotage their own love lives by not putting themselves out there or by holding onto past relationships.
According to a survey by Match.com, 20% of singles say they’re too busy to date, while 25% say they’re not over their exes. And let’s not forget about the classic “I’m just not ready for a relationship” excuse. But the truth is, you’ll never be 100% ready for love – it’s always going to be a bit of a risk.
Another culprit? Fear of rejection. As the great Maya Angelou once said, “I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” Don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back from putting yourself out there and finding the person you’re meant to be with.
So, what’s the solution? Be open to love and take chances. Say yes to that date, and don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. And most importantly, don’t let your past or fear hold you back from finding your happily ever after.
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Your dating expert
Rebecca Cooper Traynor
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