Hey there! I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor from Match Me Canada, and I’ve been matchmaking for 15 years. My focus isn’t just on helping people find love, it’s also about the coaching—helping you understand what’s working (and what’s not) in your dating life. One of the biggest changes we’ve made at Match Me Canada is helping people find success on dating sites. Trust me, there’s a lot more to it than just swiping right! The reality? People don’t know how to market themselves properly, and they end up frustrated. That’s where we come in—we take over, help you look your best online, and give you a much better shot at finding your match. Now, let’s dive into something super important—how to spot fake profiles.
How to Spot a Fake Profile
Let’s get real: dating online is like swimming in a pool full of fish, and not all of them are winners. You’ve got to be sharp, because there are a ton of fake profiles out there. Here’s how you can spot them before you waste your time.
1. Too Good to Be True? Probably Is.
If someone’s profile looks like it’s straight out of a GQ magazine, has the perfect photos, and their messages are too smooth, red flags should be flying. Sure, they might just be super good-looking and awesome, but if you’re thinking, “This is too perfect,” you’re probably right. And if they’re showering you with attention from the start? Be careful.
2. They’re Always Online
If you’re on a site like Match.com, you can see when someone was last online. If they seem to be online all the time and constantly available, it’s a sign that something’s not adding up. People with real lives aren’t glued to their dating apps 24/7.
3. Instant Intensity
Are they trying to take things offline right away? Like, they just messaged you but they’re already asking for your number or trying to move the conversation to another app? Slow down. People who are genuinely interested will be patient, not pushy.
4. They’re Vague About Details
If you’re chatting with someone and they’re dodging questions about their life—where they live, what they do, or even their last name—that’s a huge red flag. Real people with real lives don’t avoid basic questions.
What to Do If You Suspect They’re Fake
• Get their full name and Google them. You’d be surprised how much you can find online. If you’re not finding anything about them, that’s suspicious.
• Ask more specific questions. If they’re fake, they’ll either avoid answering, give you vague responses, or just ghost you altogether.
• Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. Don’t ignore those feelings.
Remember, if it’s too good to be true, it’s probably a scam. Stay sharp and protect yourself online!
