Are you tired of waiting for someone to message you on dating sites?
Let me tell you a secret: the best way to get a response is to be proactive and message others first!
But what do you say? “Hey, how’s it going?” is so cliché, and “You’re hot, let’s hook up” is just plain creepy. So, what’s a single person to do?
First of all, take a look at their profile. What are their interests? What do they do for fun? Use that information to craft a message that shows you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them. For example, if they have a picture of themselves hiking, you could say, “Hey, I see you’re into hiking. I’m planning on hitting up [trail name] next weekend. Any hiking tips for me?”
Another great way to start a conversation is to ask for their opinion. For example, “I see you like to watch movies. I just watched ________ recently and loved it. What are your top 3 movies you could recommend?”
Always include at least one question in your message, and by touching on something they are interested in, you are showing your interest.
According to a recent study, messages that are personalized and show genuine interest are 30% more likely to get a response. So, put in a little extra effort, and you’ll stand out from the crowd.
But let’s be real, dating can be tough, and it can be hard to know what to say and how to act. That’s where Match Me Canada comes in! Our team of experts can help with date coaching, online dating support, and even an online dating takeover to help you get better results when dating.
Don’t wait for love to come to you; go out there and find it! And if you need a little help along the way, we’ve got you covered.
Book a call today, and let us help you find your perfect match!
Yours truly, Rebecca Cooper Traynor,
Match Me Canada