Meet Rebecca
Hey there, fabulous singles! I’m Rebecca Cooper Traynor, founder of Match Me Canada. For over 15 years, I’ve been helping singles across Toronto and beyond find lasting love. As a modern matchmaker and dating coach, I’ve guided hundreds of clients to feel more confident, date smarter, and create meaningful relationships. Whether it’s helping someone find their perfect match online or coaching them through the ups and downs of dating, my mission is simple: I want you to love your love life.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned over the years? Your “type” might not be your type at all. Let’s unpack this.
Why Your Type Probably Isn’t Your Type
1. Your Type Is Based on Familiarity, Not Compatibility
So let’s get real—most people’s “type” comes from their past. Maybe it’s that brooding artist vibe or the super-chatty extrovert you keep falling for. But guess what? Familiar doesn’t always mean compatible. If your “type” hasn’t worked out before, why keep chasing it?
2. Physical Attraction Is Important, But It’s Not Everything
Sure, you might love a certain height, smile, or sense of style, but relationships are built on more than just looks. What about shared values, emotional intelligence, and how they treat you when you’ve had a rough day?
3. Types Can Keep You Stuck in a Dating Rut
Face it: your “type” might be holding you back. If you’re always looking for the same kind of person, you might be overlooking someone amazing who doesn’t fit your usual mold but is exactly what you need.
What to Look For Instead
• Shared Values: Do you both prioritize family, career, or adventure?
• Emotional Safety: Do you feel heard, respected, and valued?
• Compatible Lifestyles: Do your day-to-day routines and goals align?
• Supportive Energy: Are they cheering you on, even during life’s tough moments?
Real Talk from a Matchmaker
One of my clients came to me saying, “I know exactly who I want.” Spoiler alert: her “perfect guy” wasn’t the one she ended up with. After a few months of working together, she met someone who didn’t check all her boxes, but he checked all the important ones. Fast forward—they’re now happily married, and she tells me she couldn’t imagine life any other way.
Ready to Discover Your True Match?
Let’s ditch the idea of “types” and start focusing on what really matters in a partner. If you’re ready to level up your dating game and find someone who’s truly right for you, let’s chat. Book a 1-hour coaching call with me here, and let’s uncover your best match.
